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My good
feelings about who I am stem from being
liked by you.
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My good
feelings about who I am stem from receiving
approval from you.
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Your struggle
affects my serenity. My mental attention
focuses on solving your problems/relieving
your pain.
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My mental
attention is focused on you.
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My mental
attention is focused on protecting you.
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My mental
attention is focused on manipulating you to
do it my way.
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My
self-esteem is bolstered by solving your
problems.
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My
self-esteem is bolstered by relieving your
pain.
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My own
hobbies/interests are put to one side. My
time is spent sharing your
hobbies/interests.
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Your clothing
and personal appearance are dictated by my
desires and I feel you are a reflection of
me.
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Your behavior
is dictated by my desires and I feel you are
a reflection of me.
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I am not
aware of how I feel. I am aware of how you
feel.
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I am not
aware of what I want - I ask what you want.
I am not aware - I assume.
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The dreams I
have for my future are linked to you.
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My fear of
rejection determines what I say or do.
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My fear of
your anger determines what I say or do.
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I use giving
as a way of feeling safe in our
relationship.
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My social
circle diminishes as I involve myself with
you.
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I put my
values aside in order to connect with you.
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I value your
opinion and way of doing things more than my
own.
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The quality
of my life is in relation to the quality of
yours.