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Sunday Night Meeting Format

Sunday Night Adult Children Of Alcoholics And Other Dysfunctional Families "Survivor's Group" Meeting Format

NOTE TO THE CHAIRPERSON

Our meeting starts at 7:30 and ends at 9:00.

Be conscious of time. Ask for burning desires at 8:50 by stating that there are five minutes for burning desires. At 8:55 we need to read the closing and sing.

During the meeting, remind the group that there are ___ minutes left in the meeting and that several (or a lot) of people haven't shared, and to keep sharing to a minimum.

Meeting Schedule
Sunday of the Month Type of Meeting
1st Open Topic, Candlelight. Business meeting follows the regular meeting.
2nd Open Topic
3rd
      January & July
      February & August
      March & September
      April & October
      May & November
      June & December
Step Meeting & Other Discussion Topics
      Steps 1, 2 & 3
      Steps 4 & 5
      Steps 6 & 7
      Steps 8 & 9
      Steps 10 & 11
      Step 12
4th Birthday meeting if last Sunday of the month. Candlelight Open Topic meeting if there are five Sundays in the month.
Occasional 5th Birthday meeting
  1. Open Meeting with a moment of silence followed by the Serenity Prayer.

  2. Identify meeting: "This is an Adult Children of Alcoholics & Other Dysfunctional Families meeting. Anyone who can handle what comes up at six meetings without retreating once again into denial, has begun an irreversible process of recovery. Everything in that person's life can become a part of the recovery process regardless of how chaotic it may look or feel. Many of us act out old dramas and defenses at least once again, as if to see whether they really are as unnecessary as we hope they are. Indeed, they are unnecessary, but typically we do slip back into denial and other obsessions. But we keep our program going anyway. We are survivors!

  3. Go around the room introducing ourselves — first names only.

  4. Welcome newcomers and have them re-introduce themselves, first names only.

  5. Have someone read The 12 Steps.

  6. Have someone read the ACOA/DF Characteristics.

  7. Announcements.

  8. "Group Policy: No crosstalk please. We want to keep the focus on ourselves. When I focus on others, I'm avoiding myself. Would someone please give an additional explanation of keeping the focus on ourselves? (Choose someone or define it yourself.) This group abides by the Second Tradition, which states that we are governed by our group conscience. If children are present and behaving in a disruptive manner, please remove them from the meeting room. Our meeting is an hour and a half in length, from 7:30 until 9:00. Please keep your sharing to a minimum so everyone has time to share.

  9. (Check to see if this is a Step, Birthday, Topic, etc. meeting. Ask for topics, birthdays or whichever is appropriate. Birthday people have the option to tell their personal stories.) "No topics are off limits. The only guideline we follow is that each speaker keep the focus on him or herself."

  10. Just before the close of the meeting, explain: "We have no dues or fees but we do have expenses. A basket is being passed around. Donations are appreciated if you would like to contribute. Newcomers do not contribute at their first meeting."

  11. Read Closing: "In closing, I would like to say that the opinions expressed here were strictly those of the person who gave them. Take what you like and leave the rest. The things you heard here were spoken in confidence and should be treated as confidential. Keep them within the walls of this room and the confines of your mind. I put my hand in yours and together we can do what we could never do alone. No longer is there a sense of hopelessness. No longer must we depend upon our own unsteady willpower. All that is needed now is a safe place where we can finally shed our defenses, our denial, and admit to ourselves and others how angry, hurt, maddened and wounded we have always felt. ADMIT IT, EXPERIENCE IT AND RELEASE IT. We are all together now, reaching out our hands for power and strength greater than ours. As we join hands, we find love and understanding beyond our wildest dreams.

  12. Ask for a volunteer to chair next week's meeting.

  13. Have someone read The Promises.

  14. Explain that we close with The Lord's Prayer and the singing of The Greatest Love Of All.

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